05 Jan, 2010
Breaking Through Barriers: Working With Principles of Transformation, Part Two - The Power of Decluttering
Posted by: Angela Leeds In: Decluttering| Transformation - Creating CHANGE

While Part One in this article series on transformation described the pre-conditions for creating lasting change — those elements that need to exist and be cultivated in order to successful change to occur — Part Two will begin to describe some of the “stops” along the way, common junctures and notable markers & milestones when one undertakes a journey of change.
First stop on the journey to generate change:
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Decluttering. Releasing the old to make way for the new…
“What do you want?”
A journey of transformation needs a desire to fuel the process. It is desire that moves you forward into new experience and change. And if desire is the fuel, it is the clarity and certainty in your mind of the desired outcome that ignites the process. You may want something, but if you can’t see it happening for yourself and you don’t believe that it can become true, if you don’t “own” it as your potential reality, your desire will forever remain as a wish without momentum.
So… clarity of what you desire, and the feeling of certainty that you can have it… where do these things come from? If you don’t have them now, or they are weak, how can you “get” them or develop them into stronger, more palpable forces?
In addition, at times we may know exactly what we want (or what it is we think we want…). But what if you’re not clear on what it is you want?
If you feel just a generally vague desire for “more” or for “better”, without having assigned specifics to what that really is and what it would look and feel like in your experience, don’t feel bad — you are not alone. Connecting with our desire nature, as natural as the mechanics of it really are, can be daunting at first if we aren’t accustomed to paying attention to what we really want. Like anything else, the desire muscle gets flabby from neglect. If this is the case, when we try to “tune in” to what we want, we just feel a kind of vague numbness. But no worries… all it needs is some attention and exercise for it to naturally strengthen into a useable force.
But whether you feel crystal clear or muddily vague, in my experience there is no more potent way to create dramatic momentum toward change than by decluttering.

Why Is Decluttering So Powerful?
The Pursuit Of Clarity
Decluttering ignites change and increases clarity like nobody’s business. If you don’t know exactly what you want, decluttering can help reveal that. And if you do know, it can release you quickly and powerfully onto a transformational arc into utterly new and wonderful terrain! I have launched so many successful journeys of utterly radical change through the exercise of radical decluttering that it’s now just a habit I automatically turn to when I’m ready to increase the momentum of my life in a new direction.
Decluttering is far more than just a way to tidy up your space… it’s a profound process of identifying what you need and what you love from a fresh perspective. What you need and what you love are basic personal values. As you sift through your belongings and say “yay” or “nay”, discarding items that you previously valued, you are affirming on an inner level that your values (and correlating desires…) have changed. Each toss is a statement that you now value new things so much that you are willing to make space for them to come into your life! And as you do so you automatically point the nose of your life in the right direction. The more you repeat this process, the clearer that direction becomes… and from that new direction comes the voice of your desire, speaking to you and giving you the clarity that you seek.
At first, this process begins on a physical level, with your physical space and even your body, because radically increasing living foods, engaging in a “cleanse” or a juice fast, are also ways to “declutter”. But everything’s connected… the physical with the non-physical… so once you start, you can trigger a series of new insights and awareness and personal clarifications that you would never have expected from such a deceptively simple action. And you can approach this decluttering business from a number of different angles all at once, or in bits and pieces, depending upon how radical a change you wish to create.
More than once I have reduced my belongings to bare-bones essentials in order to re-invent my life both personally and professionally. Another time, over the course of a summer, room by room, drawer by drawer, closet by closet, I moved out of my entire house and back into it as if it were a fresh beginning, without ever changing my address. As this website also testifies, I have radically decluttered my physical body (more than once), always using living foods. And in each of these instances, these exercises helped to catalyze massive change brought on by absolutely crystalline clarity and the certainty that I could achieve the experience I newly desired.

So… tackle your junk drawer, your pantry, your silverware drawer, your linen closet, your wardrobe, your filing cabinet, your stash of pens (seriously… you have dead pens & broken pencils in your house?); get rid of all the chochkes lining your bookcases, donate books you’ll never read again (seriously… move on), get rid of your handbags, your junk jewelry, the fabric in your closet which you’ll never have time to sew, the articles and magazines that take up dead space and leave you feeling like there will never be enough time to get to them; toss out your old cassettes, the CD cases you never use, old videos gathering dust. Either immediately repair or trash any clothing that’s torn, stained, or ratty; get rid of glass bottles and plastic containers that are overwhelming your cabinets because you think you’re being “green” without realizing that you’re actually polluting your own energy field and life with stagnation.
Beware The Excuses… The Snares That Would Keep You Stuck!
There are so many insidiously disempowering decisions involved in the journey of decluttering. “But… but… but… I may need this some day. But… it cost a lot of money! But… someone I love gave this to me” (even though you haven’t looked at, used, or enjoyed the thing for a decade).
The truth is, the more courage you bring to this process, the greater your statement that you mean business about creating the life you say you really want… and therefore the greater the rewards. No exceptions.
Creating A Powerful Serge of Fresh Momentum
As you are willing to let go of past attachments that no longer serve you, or which do not support the direction you wish to go in, you create momentum. The more that you release, the greater the momentum and fresh clarity that swoops in, and the louder the voice of your desire becomes, painting a picture of itself to you in ever more brilliant color and finer detail. It’s as if, as you declutter, you are creating an environment of dramatically reduced “static”, through which the “transmission” of what you want can become all the more discernible to you.
If as you begin this process you are already crystal clear about what your desired direction looks like, and if you make radical decisions to release what doesn’t “vibe” with it, it’s like pouring rocket fuel into your tank. Hang on, because you’re in for an exciting ride! What you are doing here is truly aligning with your desire, on every level. And you’ll have set the stage for a massive rut-breaking phase of your life, one that, if you follow through without applying brakes of personal resistance, can lead you to genuine, deeply rooted transformation!

“Or… Maybe I Don’t Want To Change After All…”
On the other hand, if in the course of decluttering you begin to refuse to release certain components in your life that are incompatible with what you say you desire, you will quickly find that to be like applying an emergency brake to the process of change. You can’t go forward if you’re rooting your feet deep into the muddy bottom of attachment.
If you find yourself doing this, there’s no moral “good” or “bad” to it. It is what it is. YOU are at the helm of your life, of what you want your life to be or not to be… no one is imposing the need to change on you. And your resistance to release these critical aspects of your life is nothing but precious information about what you value and desire most. That might be an insight that changes your paradigm and gives you peace, because you may have thought that you wanted something you don’t currently have, only to discover that you actually value what is already in your life more than the effort, trouble, or change required to move beyond it.
Initiating change and going for what one wants can all sound well and good at the outset, but when you come face-to-face with what that really means and what you will be called to release from your life in order to get what you want, it may entail the realization that, well, maybe it’s not really worth the tumult to you, after all. And that’s a good thing to know. The status quo may suddenly display new value to you as you realize that you don’t wish to align your life with what you thought you wanted. And you can then take responsibility for that choice, and choose to live in peace with it.
All this just from decluttering “stuff”?
Could be. But also along the way you may realize that it’s a relationship which you must release… or an attitude, or resentment. When you start decluttering “things”, you quickly descend into the core issues of your life, which are all attached to the things you value — your memories, your emotions, your relationships, your home, your comfort, your money, your work, your very sense of self.
So as you dig deeply into releasing these physical things, those non-physical components that are invisibly but inexorably attached to them also begin to work in your mind and come to the surface for accounting. And this is where the real work occurs, and why decluttering is such a potent force for establishing momentum for change!
Decluttering enables you to connect with what you desire and to get yourself into alignment with it at a very foundational level.
I wouldn’t begin any journey of change without this step.
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How To Declutter: The Very Best Way
I actually used to work as a decluttering consultant, going into people’s homes and helping them through this process. It can help to have someone encourage you to “rip off the band-aid” when your courage begins to waver. Heh.
This is the technique I use personally, and which I recommend to others I have helped:
1) Tackle one specific area at a time, be it a drawer, a closet, a cabinet, or an entire room.
2) Empty that area of everything that is in it.
3) Clean the area like the Queen is coming, like you never have before.
4) Then put back into that area, ideally NOT into the same formation that existed previously, ONLY: what you truly need and what you truly love.
5) What doesn’t fall into those two categories, break out into piles for Trash, Donate, and Sell, depending on your situation.
That’s it!
If you get to step 5 and have very little left over, my suspicion is that you have a lot of resistance to moving forward. Is it lack of trust? Fear? Greed?
Are you letting rip a stream of justifications of why you can’t let go, why you can’t do what you want, why you can’t have what you want? Take note… this is where your true work lies. You will need to resolve these bits and pieces of emotional gravity holding you back if you truly want move forward.
But that’s all part of the journey… And the courageous undertaking of a radical decluttering can set you well on your way to find the clarity and courage it takes to resolve your resistances. If you so desire…
Part Three will continue to explore the process of Transformation. What do you do once momentum starts to take you into unfamiliar territory? We’re going to see what that looks like…








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